Chapter 176
I thought my daughter disliked her, so I also had a little bit of the idea of confronting for people, no matter what age they are, they will have a little rebellious mentality. They don't like to be criticized, and they don't mind being instigated!
Now I know that my daughter doesn't want to criticize herself, nor does she despise herself, but she really hopes that she can feel proud in front of her ex-husband because of her worthlessness.
Originally, Aunt Su just thought it was good to leave her ex-husband, she never thought about looking back at her ex-husband, and never had the idea of meeting her ex-husband like people, even if you leave him, it is too hard to even curse him for a bad life!Moreover, I'm also afraid that he is really having a bad time, and maybe he will come and cause trouble for himself!
Aunt Su and her daughter have completely opposite ideas!The daughter hopes that her father will have a bad life, and then she will regret divorcing her mother, and hope they will get back together!Maybe all children think this way when facing the divorce of their parents. They don't believe that such a thing will happen. The people they love should also love each other!How is it possible, how can it develop to the point where they can't get along!What is so unforgivable?I also have disagreements with my parents, quarrels, and boredom. As a family, any unhappiness should pass away!Why should we separate?
No matter how incomprehensible the child is!Even if it becomes a fact, she still hopes that there will be a chance for them to get together again. She can't understand the feelings of the person involved, because she subjectively wants them to love each other and need each other!This is every child's position.
My position as a child is also the same. First of all, I am a child, and I have not been a mother for long, so I can better understand the child's I was young, my parents quarreled, and my mother went back to her natal home and didn't come back for several told me that my mother is gone, she doesn't want me anymore, and won't come back... If this is the case, it will make me very sad.
I will cry and make a fuss for my father to pick up my mother!I don't believe other people's words, I think they are talking nonsense, but I am very afraid of such nonsense!I don't want my parents to be separated because I don't want to be separated from any of want them to be together forever and whenever I go home, I can see both of them at the same time.
Dad always said that after two days, my mother's anger subsides before going!
Thinking about it now, in fact, my father was extremely unwilling to go to my grandfather's house to pick up my mother. Every time I would be scolded by my uncle, but to pick up my mother back, my father could only bear this!
To be honest, my uncle has done a lot for my mother, which makes my mother's status in our family always very high!However, when mother and father get better and better, they become more and more distant from uncle!Because after all, getting married will take us away from the family we grew up matter how close brothers and sisters are, after all, they can't kiss the person who started a family with you!And this is mostly because he has his child, and the person he and his other half love the most wholeheartedly is their child. For this common love, they have become an intimate also have your own child, and you will become a community with your significant other for this child.
Therefore, a family with children should be quite stable!There must be quite serious problems to be able to go to the the point where she doesn't even care about the feelings of her favorite child!
After Aunt Su met her ex-husband, she understood that her daughter was right!This person didn't feel any guilt towards him at all, and he didn't feel that he had suffered many, many grievances with him all these years!There are only two situations for this person to feel a little guilty about himself, and to have a little understanding of the grievances he has given him for so many years!One is that after the divorce, he had a bad life and was unhappy, and only then did he realize how good the people around him were, and he shouldn't treat them like that; It can prove that all his criticisms of Aunt Su during his lifetime were was the one who delayed her for so many years!
The current situation is just the opposite, he seems to be doing well, but Aunt Su seems to be doing badly, and her class is a few grades behind!He even looked down on Aunt Su!
Now this field, will that person still look down on him?
No!People fight for one breath, Buddhas fight for one stick of incense!Those who are no longer pursued still have self-respect and backbone!And once a person has the will to fight, there will be no more difficulties that can trap her!
Often what inspires people is adversity, those who embarrass themselves!Therefore, the phrase "born in sorrow, died in peace!" has been recognized by the world after thousands of years!
Aunt Su left our house resolutely. She was going to do something that that person would regret, but she didn't say what it was!
However, Aunt Su's daughter might be disappointed!The mother ignited the fighting spirit, not to save the father, but to have a deeper estrangement with the father!With a whole body of resentment!
I like watching TV, but I never watch the kind of wife's revenge movie, because I think it's ridiculous, and the screen is full of nonsense.
Until something like this happened to me!I can finally believe the saying 100% "Drama comes from life!"
There are all kinds of strange things in life, but not all of them will happen to me, and I think it does not exist. In fact, no matter how strange or incredible things are, they are happening somewhere in the world!It's just that I don't 's not that it doesn't exist, I question some things, it's just because of my own limited knowledge and understanding of the world.
do not care!No matter what stories are going on in other parts of the world, we have to take control of our own lives!
Changes, variables, these are really not as troublesome as we think. We are always afraid of troubles and refuse to change, so we have delayed many things and many people.
Aunt Su left our house, I decided to resign and bring poetry at home!
This time Tang Yufeng did not raise any objections!Home really needs someone to take care of it!We thought too idealisticly before, and lived too idealistically!But the realization of this idealism is exhausting for all!No wonder, since ancient times, one person ruled the outside and the other ruled the inside!Everyone puts their energy on the outside, and the cohesion at home is not enough!
Xu Shi hasn't raised a child alone for a long time, and I think Shi Yun is old enough to understand some things and can communicate, so it shouldn't be too bad to take care of the child at home!All I can say is, I'm always too naive!Children of different ages have different problems and create different there is one of them, and there is only one commonality, that is, you can't think of it at all, and you can't prevent it!
(End of this chapter)
I thought my daughter disliked her, so I also had a little bit of the idea of confronting for people, no matter what age they are, they will have a little rebellious mentality. They don't like to be criticized, and they don't mind being instigated!
Now I know that my daughter doesn't want to criticize herself, nor does she despise herself, but she really hopes that she can feel proud in front of her ex-husband because of her worthlessness.
Originally, Aunt Su just thought it was good to leave her ex-husband, she never thought about looking back at her ex-husband, and never had the idea of meeting her ex-husband like people, even if you leave him, it is too hard to even curse him for a bad life!Moreover, I'm also afraid that he is really having a bad time, and maybe he will come and cause trouble for himself!
Aunt Su and her daughter have completely opposite ideas!The daughter hopes that her father will have a bad life, and then she will regret divorcing her mother, and hope they will get back together!Maybe all children think this way when facing the divorce of their parents. They don't believe that such a thing will happen. The people they love should also love each other!How is it possible, how can it develop to the point where they can't get along!What is so unforgivable?I also have disagreements with my parents, quarrels, and boredom. As a family, any unhappiness should pass away!Why should we separate?
No matter how incomprehensible the child is!Even if it becomes a fact, she still hopes that there will be a chance for them to get together again. She can't understand the feelings of the person involved, because she subjectively wants them to love each other and need each other!This is every child's position.
My position as a child is also the same. First of all, I am a child, and I have not been a mother for long, so I can better understand the child's I was young, my parents quarreled, and my mother went back to her natal home and didn't come back for several told me that my mother is gone, she doesn't want me anymore, and won't come back... If this is the case, it will make me very sad.
I will cry and make a fuss for my father to pick up my mother!I don't believe other people's words, I think they are talking nonsense, but I am very afraid of such nonsense!I don't want my parents to be separated because I don't want to be separated from any of want them to be together forever and whenever I go home, I can see both of them at the same time.
Dad always said that after two days, my mother's anger subsides before going!
Thinking about it now, in fact, my father was extremely unwilling to go to my grandfather's house to pick up my mother. Every time I would be scolded by my uncle, but to pick up my mother back, my father could only bear this!
To be honest, my uncle has done a lot for my mother, which makes my mother's status in our family always very high!However, when mother and father get better and better, they become more and more distant from uncle!Because after all, getting married will take us away from the family we grew up matter how close brothers and sisters are, after all, they can't kiss the person who started a family with you!And this is mostly because he has his child, and the person he and his other half love the most wholeheartedly is their child. For this common love, they have become an intimate also have your own child, and you will become a community with your significant other for this child.
Therefore, a family with children should be quite stable!There must be quite serious problems to be able to go to the the point where she doesn't even care about the feelings of her favorite child!
After Aunt Su met her ex-husband, she understood that her daughter was right!This person didn't feel any guilt towards him at all, and he didn't feel that he had suffered many, many grievances with him all these years!There are only two situations for this person to feel a little guilty about himself, and to have a little understanding of the grievances he has given him for so many years!One is that after the divorce, he had a bad life and was unhappy, and only then did he realize how good the people around him were, and he shouldn't treat them like that; It can prove that all his criticisms of Aunt Su during his lifetime were was the one who delayed her for so many years!
The current situation is just the opposite, he seems to be doing well, but Aunt Su seems to be doing badly, and her class is a few grades behind!He even looked down on Aunt Su!
Now this field, will that person still look down on him?
No!People fight for one breath, Buddhas fight for one stick of incense!Those who are no longer pursued still have self-respect and backbone!And once a person has the will to fight, there will be no more difficulties that can trap her!
Often what inspires people is adversity, those who embarrass themselves!Therefore, the phrase "born in sorrow, died in peace!" has been recognized by the world after thousands of years!
Aunt Su left our house resolutely. She was going to do something that that person would regret, but she didn't say what it was!
However, Aunt Su's daughter might be disappointed!The mother ignited the fighting spirit, not to save the father, but to have a deeper estrangement with the father!With a whole body of resentment!
I like watching TV, but I never watch the kind of wife's revenge movie, because I think it's ridiculous, and the screen is full of nonsense.
Until something like this happened to me!I can finally believe the saying 100% "Drama comes from life!"
There are all kinds of strange things in life, but not all of them will happen to me, and I think it does not exist. In fact, no matter how strange or incredible things are, they are happening somewhere in the world!It's just that I don't 's not that it doesn't exist, I question some things, it's just because of my own limited knowledge and understanding of the world.
do not care!No matter what stories are going on in other parts of the world, we have to take control of our own lives!
Changes, variables, these are really not as troublesome as we think. We are always afraid of troubles and refuse to change, so we have delayed many things and many people.
Aunt Su left our house, I decided to resign and bring poetry at home!
This time Tang Yufeng did not raise any objections!Home really needs someone to take care of it!We thought too idealisticly before, and lived too idealistically!But the realization of this idealism is exhausting for all!No wonder, since ancient times, one person ruled the outside and the other ruled the inside!Everyone puts their energy on the outside, and the cohesion at home is not enough!
Xu Shi hasn't raised a child alone for a long time, and I think Shi Yun is old enough to understand some things and can communicate, so it shouldn't be too bad to take care of the child at home!All I can say is, I'm always too naive!Children of different ages have different problems and create different there is one of them, and there is only one commonality, that is, you can't think of it at all, and you can't prevent it!
(End of this chapter)
