"Tianxiu wants to transfer to another school?"
After Kang Qirui accepted the interview arranged by Miss Tang, he returned to the Kang family with A Zu. As soon as he entered the door, he heard the second brother and his wife say that Tianxiu asked to transfer schools. He couldn't help but ask: "Isn't his current school pretty good?"
"The school is good, but he has no confidence after entering." The second sister-in-law said helplessly, "You all know what his grades were when he was in primary school. Although he made up for it during the summer vacation, there is still a big gap between him and other students. Now that school has started, he can't keep up with other students. He said it's very hard. He's so old now. Do we have to beat him every time to force him to study hard?"
"In my opinion, it's none of my son's business. I remember someone said this. He said there are no bad children in the world, only bad schools." The second brother protected Tianxiu so much. He was the one who shouted for his death every day, but in fact, he was the one who doted on Tianxiu the most.
Kang Qirui shook his head and said, "No way, second brother, Xiguan No. 2 Middle School is a provincial key school. It has the highest scores in the high school entrance examination every year. If this is not good, then what is considered a good school?"
"Does a high score necessarily mean it's a good school? No matter how high the score is, if it's not suitable for Tianxiu, it's not a good school. The good school I'm talking about is from Tianxiu's perspective." Erlao said.
It must be said that what Er Lao said made sense. Kang Qirui had no choice but to ask, "Which school do you want to transfer Xiuzi to?"
"It's the one at the corner of the street." The second sister-in-law said casually. It seemed that the second brother and his wife had discussed this issue a long time ago.
"That one? It's a fake school. The standard is very average." Kang Qirui frowned. The middle school at the corner of the street was a private one. The standard was very average. It didn't even have a mid-level teacher.
The second brother waved his hands and said defensively, "My father always taught us that it is better to be the head of a chicken than the tail of a phoenix. With our level, we will definitely be the head of a chicken if we go to that school. We will be in the top three in every exam in no time."
Kang Qirui wanted to say, what's the point of being in the top three of such a school? Even if you get first place, you still have no competitiveness compared to other schools.
"If you ask me, there are no bad children, only bad parents." A Zurui commented.
The second brother and his wife were furious when they heard this. The second brother said excitedly, "What are you talking about? We, a husband and wife, have worked hard for our son. What's wrong with us? Tell me!"
The second sister-in-law also said, "Fourth Uncle, you have no right to criticize the two of us. Don't think that you can criticize others just because you made a movie that sold 2 million at the box office. You don't understand at all. When your son Paul grows up to be as old as Tianxiu is now, you will understand."
Ah Zu cried out in injustice, "When did I ever say that I can go home and criticize you just because I made a movie? I was just quoting an expert. That sentence just now was not said by me, but by a parenting expert."
"Actually, A-Zu is right. We in the United States attach great importance to encouraging education. We don't beat and scold children every day like you do." Diana also stood up to support her husband A-Zu.
"That's right. You either scold or beat him, causing Tianxiu to completely lose his self-confidence. If he gives up on himself at this rate, you'll be in trouble." The old man had the same opinion as A-Zu Diana.
The second brother disagreed. He snorted and mocked his father-in-law, "Father, I think you should say this to a mirror, not to me. When it comes to educating your children, you really need to reflect on yourself." "What do you want me to reflect on?" The father-in-law was furious.
Even Kang Qirui couldn't stand it anymore. Dad was quite good at educating his children. Except for the two older brothers, the eldest Guang and the second oldest, who really had no conditions to go to school, the other three brothers, A Yao, had a college degree, and Zu had a bachelor's degree, while Kang Qirui had a doctorate. Even A Yao's college degree was hard currency at the time, and he went straight to work in the unit after graduation.
Kang Qirui said, "Are you kidding me? You want me to reflect on myself? You should reflect on yourself."
"What's my problem?" asked the second brother righteously.
"As the old saying goes: If a son is not well educated, it is the fault of his father." Kang Qirui directly retorted, and the mother also joined the criticism meeting at this time. She said: "I feel the same way. You two have some problems with Tianxiu."
"What's the problem?" The second brother still said stubbornly.
Kang Qirui shook his head and said bluntly: "It's a very serious problem. I know that you, the second brother and the second sister-in-law, love Tianxiu very much in your hearts and want him to succeed. But because of this, he is under a lot of pressure. Your approach is also wrong."
"That's right. He always threatens to beat me. He'll scold me for the smallest things. How can he have the confidence to do anything?" Zhu Wanling now has her own experience in taking care of children.
Others also complained about the treatment of Tianxiu by Er Lao and his wife. Er Lao became impatient as he listened. He shouted, "Okay, okay, what's the matter now? We are talking about Kang Tianxiu's education. What's the point of you targeting us, husband and wife?"
"In fact, we called everyone to the meeting today because we hope that everyone can work together to come up with a good idea to educate Kang Tianxiu and let Kang Tianxiu serve as a role model for the people below." The second brother emphasized the purpose of calling everyone to the meeting this time, and by the way, he also tried to whitewash himself.
"That's right. Your Tianxiu is a good kid. My Paul and the boss's Tianyou are all watching him. If he doesn't learn well, they will definitely follow suit in the future." A Zu nodded, agreeing with the second brother's statement.
He thought for a moment and then said, "Speaking of this education method, I think you can adopt the encouragement education method of my wife Diana and her friends. Cancel all the previous punishments, beatings, and scoldings, and just use encouragement education."
My father agreed immediately, "Yes, I think that for children, we must give them praise as the main education, and the most important thing is to cultivate their self-confidence."
"What the old man said is right. We must cultivate his self-confidence. Why does he want to transfer schools? Isn't it because he has no confidence? Isn't it because he thinks that his classmates are all very good and his grades are so bad that he feels that he can't stay here, so he wants to transfer schools." Kang Qirui followed the old man's words and analyzed the reasons why Tianxiu wanted to transfer schools with his second brother and his wife. He continued: "As the old saying goes, the first push is the best, the second is weaker, and the third is exhausted. How can he be confident when you say he is not good every day? Children's spirit should be encouraged, not exhausted!"
The second sister-in-law nodded and said, "I understand. Breath-holding education! We must raise Tianxiu's grades within a year!"
"It's not holding your breath, it's blowing it out." Even the second brother was speechless. (End of this chapter)
After Kang Qirui accepted the interview arranged by Miss Tang, he returned to the Kang family with A Zu. As soon as he entered the door, he heard the second brother and his wife say that Tianxiu asked to transfer schools. He couldn't help but ask: "Isn't his current school pretty good?"
"The school is good, but he has no confidence after entering." The second sister-in-law said helplessly, "You all know what his grades were when he was in primary school. Although he made up for it during the summer vacation, there is still a big gap between him and other students. Now that school has started, he can't keep up with other students. He said it's very hard. He's so old now. Do we have to beat him every time to force him to study hard?"
"In my opinion, it's none of my son's business. I remember someone said this. He said there are no bad children in the world, only bad schools." The second brother protected Tianxiu so much. He was the one who shouted for his death every day, but in fact, he was the one who doted on Tianxiu the most.
Kang Qirui shook his head and said, "No way, second brother, Xiguan No. 2 Middle School is a provincial key school. It has the highest scores in the high school entrance examination every year. If this is not good, then what is considered a good school?"
"Does a high score necessarily mean it's a good school? No matter how high the score is, if it's not suitable for Tianxiu, it's not a good school. The good school I'm talking about is from Tianxiu's perspective." Erlao said.
It must be said that what Er Lao said made sense. Kang Qirui had no choice but to ask, "Which school do you want to transfer Xiuzi to?"
"It's the one at the corner of the street." The second sister-in-law said casually. It seemed that the second brother and his wife had discussed this issue a long time ago.
"That one? It's a fake school. The standard is very average." Kang Qirui frowned. The middle school at the corner of the street was a private one. The standard was very average. It didn't even have a mid-level teacher.
The second brother waved his hands and said defensively, "My father always taught us that it is better to be the head of a chicken than the tail of a phoenix. With our level, we will definitely be the head of a chicken if we go to that school. We will be in the top three in every exam in no time."
Kang Qirui wanted to say, what's the point of being in the top three of such a school? Even if you get first place, you still have no competitiveness compared to other schools.
"If you ask me, there are no bad children, only bad parents." A Zurui commented.
The second brother and his wife were furious when they heard this. The second brother said excitedly, "What are you talking about? We, a husband and wife, have worked hard for our son. What's wrong with us? Tell me!"
The second sister-in-law also said, "Fourth Uncle, you have no right to criticize the two of us. Don't think that you can criticize others just because you made a movie that sold 2 million at the box office. You don't understand at all. When your son Paul grows up to be as old as Tianxiu is now, you will understand."
Ah Zu cried out in injustice, "When did I ever say that I can go home and criticize you just because I made a movie? I was just quoting an expert. That sentence just now was not said by me, but by a parenting expert."
"Actually, A-Zu is right. We in the United States attach great importance to encouraging education. We don't beat and scold children every day like you do." Diana also stood up to support her husband A-Zu.
"That's right. You either scold or beat him, causing Tianxiu to completely lose his self-confidence. If he gives up on himself at this rate, you'll be in trouble." The old man had the same opinion as A-Zu Diana.
The second brother disagreed. He snorted and mocked his father-in-law, "Father, I think you should say this to a mirror, not to me. When it comes to educating your children, you really need to reflect on yourself." "What do you want me to reflect on?" The father-in-law was furious.
Even Kang Qirui couldn't stand it anymore. Dad was quite good at educating his children. Except for the two older brothers, the eldest Guang and the second oldest, who really had no conditions to go to school, the other three brothers, A Yao, had a college degree, and Zu had a bachelor's degree, while Kang Qirui had a doctorate. Even A Yao's college degree was hard currency at the time, and he went straight to work in the unit after graduation.
Kang Qirui said, "Are you kidding me? You want me to reflect on myself? You should reflect on yourself."
"What's my problem?" asked the second brother righteously.
"As the old saying goes: If a son is not well educated, it is the fault of his father." Kang Qirui directly retorted, and the mother also joined the criticism meeting at this time. She said: "I feel the same way. You two have some problems with Tianxiu."
"What's the problem?" The second brother still said stubbornly.
Kang Qirui shook his head and said bluntly: "It's a very serious problem. I know that you, the second brother and the second sister-in-law, love Tianxiu very much in your hearts and want him to succeed. But because of this, he is under a lot of pressure. Your approach is also wrong."
"That's right. He always threatens to beat me. He'll scold me for the smallest things. How can he have the confidence to do anything?" Zhu Wanling now has her own experience in taking care of children.
Others also complained about the treatment of Tianxiu by Er Lao and his wife. Er Lao became impatient as he listened. He shouted, "Okay, okay, what's the matter now? We are talking about Kang Tianxiu's education. What's the point of you targeting us, husband and wife?"
"In fact, we called everyone to the meeting today because we hope that everyone can work together to come up with a good idea to educate Kang Tianxiu and let Kang Tianxiu serve as a role model for the people below." The second brother emphasized the purpose of calling everyone to the meeting this time, and by the way, he also tried to whitewash himself.
"That's right. Your Tianxiu is a good kid. My Paul and the boss's Tianyou are all watching him. If he doesn't learn well, they will definitely follow suit in the future." A Zu nodded, agreeing with the second brother's statement.
He thought for a moment and then said, "Speaking of this education method, I think you can adopt the encouragement education method of my wife Diana and her friends. Cancel all the previous punishments, beatings, and scoldings, and just use encouragement education."
My father agreed immediately, "Yes, I think that for children, we must give them praise as the main education, and the most important thing is to cultivate their self-confidence."
"What the old man said is right. We must cultivate his self-confidence. Why does he want to transfer schools? Isn't it because he has no confidence? Isn't it because he thinks that his classmates are all very good and his grades are so bad that he feels that he can't stay here, so he wants to transfer schools." Kang Qirui followed the old man's words and analyzed the reasons why Tianxiu wanted to transfer schools with his second brother and his wife. He continued: "As the old saying goes, the first push is the best, the second is weaker, and the third is exhausted. How can he be confident when you say he is not good every day? Children's spirit should be encouraged, not exhausted!"
The second sister-in-law nodded and said, "I understand. Breath-holding education! We must raise Tianxiu's grades within a year!"
"It's not holding your breath, it's blowing it out." Even the second brother was speechless. (End of this chapter)
