Chapter 646: The Considerate Su Ru
"Wufeng, I once read in a book that 'one should not observe jade under a lamp'. Why do you say to observe it under a lamp?" Su Ru thought for a moment and asked.
"Well, in fact, any jewelry should not be evaluated for color quality under light. This is especially important for jade. This is because the color of jade, especially the gray, blue and oily green colors, looks much better under light than under natural light. Therefore, under light, you can only see the cracks in jade, the length of water head, the degree of reflection or other characteristics. The green color of jade should be observed and evaluated under natural light. The fluorescent light I mentioned is a kind of identification mode light that can reflect very obvious different colors!
Remember that 'a one-grade color difference means a ten-fold price difference'!
For high-end jadeite, the price difference may be more than ten times. For example, a jadeite ring face worth 50 yuan and a jadeite ring face worth 500 million yuan, the quality, style, size, water quality, flaws of the jadeite are all first-class and impeccable, and the key to the price difference between the two lies in the level of green. It is extremely important to know and distinguish the various differences in the green of jadeite, at least you have to have seen and experienced it.
"Look more, buy less" is a process of selection, comparison, accumulation and verification of experience when buying jadeite raw stones. It is the premise of "buying". "Buying less" does not mean not buying, but reminding you to "look" carefully before buying.
"It is better to buy a line than a large piece." For the green shape characteristics of jadeite raw stones, "a line" of green belt and "a large piece" of green near the skin are two forms of the same green shape, which is the difference between the verticality of the "line" and the horizontality of the "piece." The thickness of the "line" is known, but the depth is unknown; the area of the "piece" is known, but the thickness is unknown. The key to these maxims is to remind people not to be confused by the "more" or "less" green on the surface of jadeite, and to recognize the essence of the "vertical" and "horizontal" nature of green. Therefore, it does not mean that you should not buy jadeite with a large piece of green, but it reminds people not to have excessive expectations for the thickness of green."
Zhang Wufeng explained seriously.
He has now mastered all this knowledge thoroughly, whether it is antiques, calligraphy and paintings, ceramics, sculptures and so on, he is very proficient in them all.
As for gambling on stones, it is a piece of cake.
"Wufeng, you know so much. I haven't seen you for so many years, and I feel that you have become more knowledgeable." Su Ru praised sincerely.
"Haha, in addition to these, the feeling of a truly experienced stone gambler is already very accurate. This is commonly known as the sixth sense, just like the sense of learning a foreign language or the sense of playing basketball. When you pick up a piece of rough material or take a look at it, the feeling is there. This is instinct! When the instinct is certain, the feeling will convey an inexplicable belief, thus generating a belief in victory."
Zhang Wufeng explained slightly.
When Su Ru heard this, her beautiful eyes lit up. She leaned into Zhang Wufeng's arms without saying a word.
"Ziz-ziz--" At this time, the cell phone vibrated. Zhang Wufeng picked up the phone and looked at it, and found that it was Yang Xiaolan calling.
He took the call somewhat strangely.
At this time, Zhang Wufeng noticed that it was already the 6th, which was the 8th. If history did not change, or the future did not change, the 8th would be the wedding of Yang Xiaolan and Huang Yuansheng.
Seeing that Su Ru was quiet at the moment, Zhang Wufeng immediately pressed the answer button.
"Haha, I thought you would avoid answering the phone. Anyway, I will only call once. It's your loss if you don't answer!" The voice on the phone was still that aggressive.
"Yes, it is indeed my loss. I can't live without you. I am going to die." Zhang Wufeng said with a laugh.
Su Ru next to him couldn't help but gently twist Zhang Wufeng's waist.
"You...what are you doing? I'm telling you, don't pretend to be so noble. I hate your self-righteous character the most!" The voice on the phone was still harsh, but the tone was a little softer.
"What am I doing? I'm in a taxi with my new girlfriend, heading to the hotel." Zhang Wufeng said with a smile.
At this moment, Su Ru's face suddenly flushed, as if she was blaming Zhang Wufeng for saying such things.
"You are just trying to piss me off. I don't know you well enough. You have the heart but not the guts to cheat on me? I broke up with him and he never even held my hand. Are you relieved now?!"
"What does it have to do with me? Okay, that's it. I don't have time to chat with you. Bye." Zhang Wufeng said, turned around and kissed Su Ru on the face. The "bo" sound and Su Ru's "um, no" made the sound of that moment transmitted into the phone.
On the other side, Yang Xiaolan was slightly dazed, and then an expression of extreme anger appeared on her face!
"Zhang Wufeng, you dare to look for a woman behind my back and accuse me of cheating! You are simply unreasonable. I will never live with you again. Divorce! Divorce!"
She screamed loudly, but the words that followed were a little weak.
Because, they are divorced.
Because we have broken up.
Because, it was true that her heart had nothing to cling to anymore.
In that case, what else can be said?
Are you, Zhang Wufeng, the only one who is amazing in this world? I, Yang Xiaolan, can still live a wonderful life without you!
Yang Xiaolan thought about it, and also realized that if Zhang Wufeng had not reminded her this time, she would definitely have contracted a lot of diseases, and her future would have been extremely bleak.
So, she still had to thank this man, but when she thought that the other party didn't care about her, Yang Xiaolan suddenly felt a little upset.
After thinking about it, Yang Xiaolan became a little angry. After pulling all her gifts into the taxi, she decided to first put her things at her parents' house, and then go find Zhang Wufeng and ask him to apologize to her, and then she would consider whether to forgive him. He must be just angry, and after a while, he will definitely kowtow to her again!
Thinking of this, Yang Xiaolan finally felt relieved.
At this moment, Zhang Wufeng also sighed with relief, and his tone was filled with endless relief.
"Wufeng, do you still like her?" Su Ru suddenly asked.
"I don't like her mother, and I don't like her either. Don't think too much." Zhang Wufeng said with a smile.
"You, just talk nonsense. You obviously know what I mean." Su Ru said coquettishly.
"I know, but it's meaningless to say that she loves someone. If you love someone, you love them, and if you don't love them, you don't love them. I can only say that if the hurt is too deep and the heart is dead, it is impossible to be involved again. Once the mirror is broken, it can't be repaired."
"In fact, girls need to be coaxed--"
"Don't talk about this, really. It doesn't matter if you coax those who are worth coaxing. If they are not worth coaxing, then you are just being a slut."
"..."
"Speaking of this, I remembered something and I still want to say something from my heart." Su Ru thought for a moment and said directly.
"Well? Go ahead." When Zhang Wufeng heard Su Ru's tone, he knew that she was about to say something unpleasant, but Zhang Wufeng understood that honest advice may be unpleasant to the ears but is beneficial to one's conduct!
"I know you will be unhappy or in a bad mood if I tell you this, but I have to tell you because you treat me as a friend, so I don't want you to get into a conflict and entanglement here!" Su Ru explained, then smoothed her bangs, pondered for a moment, and said softly, "I thought about it carefully, Yang Xiaolan is actually quite pitiful.
When she, I and several classmates were chatting in the group a year ago, I also talked to her about you. At that time, many female classmates envied her and thought that she had found a man who loved her and cared for her, and that her job was easy and her income was good. But she said in the group that she felt depressed and that she always had nothing to say to you.
She herself doesn't like those entertainment novels, and you don't like the idol dramas she likes. She says that there is always little communication between you.
The most important thing is that your lifestyle is problematic. You always like to write books at night and sleep during the day. When you go shopping with her, you always seem listless. Although she can feel that you care about her, she just feels that you are getting more and more annoyed, so she always likes to quarrel with you and find ways to make you angry...
I didn't understand it at the time. As a man, when it comes to creative work, it's better to think in the quiet of the night, right? What's wrong with being a little more silent, a little more solid but reliable? If you're not satisfied, you can just speak it out and communicate with each other, right?
Now thinking about it, I understand a little bit, because women always yearn for the romance under the moon and flowers. Maybe she can't adapt to the kind of plain and peaceful life that you like, so she thinks you are not good enough.
In fact, this is just a poor girl, she does not understand true love, but yearns for the so-called romance under the moon and flowers. She is not satisfied with a peaceful and happy life, but thinks it is boring and dull.
Many girls who like idol dramas will make such a choice. They have not really grown up yet.
However, how many mistakes did Yang Xiaolan make? If a man loves a woman, he should be tolerant, but tolerance does not mean spoiling. A woman who cannot bear spoiling should not be spoiled, because this will only make her worse! And a woman who can bear spoiling actually does not need to be spoiled at all, because she will take the initiative to spoil her man.
Yes, you thought that you loved her, and you could never bear to blame her, but this was indulgence! So, when all this gradually changed, she slowly changed!
She fell in love with Huang Yuansheng's sweet talk and his gangster-like arrogance, and left you. This is her immature decision, and it is also the result of your doting on her! If you scold her where you should scold her, and scold her where you should scold her, and appropriately take out some time to accompany her to relax and talk, or she will never leave you unless she is a fool!
But now that things have come to this, she has completely changed. She doesn’t know how to love. This choice can only bring her sorrow…”
Su Ru was in deep thought and spoke in a very calm tone. Zhang Wufeng understood the intention of her words, but he didn't want to think about them anymore.
Su Ru is a very taciturn girl, but she can say so much about this matter, which shows that she has actually thought about these words for a long time!
Zhang Wufeng nodded slightly and fell into deep thought. Just like the words in his dream, they also penetrated deeply into his heart.
Yes, he was wrong in the past. He shouldn't be a good man! He shouldn't spoil a girl like this! It's really not worth it! Being a good man can only make yourself suffer, so why bother? Are women born to be coaxed by men? After this incident, Zhang Wufeng will no longer coax women! A man should have the dignity of a man! I don't care if you cry, make a fuss, or even hang yourself!
"I understand what you mean, but I can only say that my vision is poor!" Zhang Wufeng laughed self-deprecatingly, and continued, "I thought that when others thought of asking me for help in times of trouble, it meant that they cared about me. I felt gratified when I helped them solve their problems. They also greeted me during the New Year and asked about my well-being. Although their concern was a bit false and polite, I just regarded it as a friend's concern and didn't think too much about it!
Although I am a very sensitive writer, I don't want to think so badly of others! I know that reality is a bit cruel, but I always feel that those people without loyalty and conscience will be far away from me, but I don't want this situation to happen to me.
This can only be said that those who are involved are confused, while those who are not involved can see things clearly.
As for Yang Xiaolan, a woman I thought was worth my all, she ended up like this! This can only mean that this woman is not worthy of love at all, and she doesn't love me at all! There is no need for any reason!
Yes, indulgence! You are right! But without love, how can there be indulgence? Indulgence itself is a kind of deep love and a kind of happiness!
Still not satisfied with this? That only means that this woman doesn't love her man at all, and doesn't understand love and happiness at all.
It is true that she likes idol dramas and dislikes entertainment novels, but what does it matter? I don't restrict her from watching idol dramas, nor do I despise her, but she always brings up my novels, saying that they are useless. Is that what she means?
She used to be a very gentle person, so I always thought about not hurting her feelings. But once I scolded her, she wanted to jump off the building! That was the first and only time I scolded her in these years! I thought, she is also a poor girl, she was quite pure and delicate when she was in school, what if I scolded her and she couldn't bear it and committed suicide... Thinking of this, and thinking about how she used to be a very good and sensible person, I suppressed my anger.
Now that I think about it, I should have broken up a long time ago! It was my own indecision that led to this situation, and I really deserved it!
(End of this chapter)
"Wufeng, I once read in a book that 'one should not observe jade under a lamp'. Why do you say to observe it under a lamp?" Su Ru thought for a moment and asked.
"Well, in fact, any jewelry should not be evaluated for color quality under light. This is especially important for jade. This is because the color of jade, especially the gray, blue and oily green colors, looks much better under light than under natural light. Therefore, under light, you can only see the cracks in jade, the length of water head, the degree of reflection or other characteristics. The green color of jade should be observed and evaluated under natural light. The fluorescent light I mentioned is a kind of identification mode light that can reflect very obvious different colors!
Remember that 'a one-grade color difference means a ten-fold price difference'!
For high-end jadeite, the price difference may be more than ten times. For example, a jadeite ring face worth 50 yuan and a jadeite ring face worth 500 million yuan, the quality, style, size, water quality, flaws of the jadeite are all first-class and impeccable, and the key to the price difference between the two lies in the level of green. It is extremely important to know and distinguish the various differences in the green of jadeite, at least you have to have seen and experienced it.
"Look more, buy less" is a process of selection, comparison, accumulation and verification of experience when buying jadeite raw stones. It is the premise of "buying". "Buying less" does not mean not buying, but reminding you to "look" carefully before buying.
"It is better to buy a line than a large piece." For the green shape characteristics of jadeite raw stones, "a line" of green belt and "a large piece" of green near the skin are two forms of the same green shape, which is the difference between the verticality of the "line" and the horizontality of the "piece." The thickness of the "line" is known, but the depth is unknown; the area of the "piece" is known, but the thickness is unknown. The key to these maxims is to remind people not to be confused by the "more" or "less" green on the surface of jadeite, and to recognize the essence of the "vertical" and "horizontal" nature of green. Therefore, it does not mean that you should not buy jadeite with a large piece of green, but it reminds people not to have excessive expectations for the thickness of green."
Zhang Wufeng explained seriously.
He has now mastered all this knowledge thoroughly, whether it is antiques, calligraphy and paintings, ceramics, sculptures and so on, he is very proficient in them all.
As for gambling on stones, it is a piece of cake.
"Wufeng, you know so much. I haven't seen you for so many years, and I feel that you have become more knowledgeable." Su Ru praised sincerely.
"Haha, in addition to these, the feeling of a truly experienced stone gambler is already very accurate. This is commonly known as the sixth sense, just like the sense of learning a foreign language or the sense of playing basketball. When you pick up a piece of rough material or take a look at it, the feeling is there. This is instinct! When the instinct is certain, the feeling will convey an inexplicable belief, thus generating a belief in victory."
Zhang Wufeng explained slightly.
When Su Ru heard this, her beautiful eyes lit up. She leaned into Zhang Wufeng's arms without saying a word.
"Ziz-ziz--" At this time, the cell phone vibrated. Zhang Wufeng picked up the phone and looked at it, and found that it was Yang Xiaolan calling.
He took the call somewhat strangely.
At this time, Zhang Wufeng noticed that it was already the 6th, which was the 8th. If history did not change, or the future did not change, the 8th would be the wedding of Yang Xiaolan and Huang Yuansheng.
Seeing that Su Ru was quiet at the moment, Zhang Wufeng immediately pressed the answer button.
"Haha, I thought you would avoid answering the phone. Anyway, I will only call once. It's your loss if you don't answer!" The voice on the phone was still that aggressive.
"Yes, it is indeed my loss. I can't live without you. I am going to die." Zhang Wufeng said with a laugh.
Su Ru next to him couldn't help but gently twist Zhang Wufeng's waist.
"You...what are you doing? I'm telling you, don't pretend to be so noble. I hate your self-righteous character the most!" The voice on the phone was still harsh, but the tone was a little softer.
"What am I doing? I'm in a taxi with my new girlfriend, heading to the hotel." Zhang Wufeng said with a smile.
At this moment, Su Ru's face suddenly flushed, as if she was blaming Zhang Wufeng for saying such things.
"You are just trying to piss me off. I don't know you well enough. You have the heart but not the guts to cheat on me? I broke up with him and he never even held my hand. Are you relieved now?!"
"What does it have to do with me? Okay, that's it. I don't have time to chat with you. Bye." Zhang Wufeng said, turned around and kissed Su Ru on the face. The "bo" sound and Su Ru's "um, no" made the sound of that moment transmitted into the phone.
On the other side, Yang Xiaolan was slightly dazed, and then an expression of extreme anger appeared on her face!
"Zhang Wufeng, you dare to look for a woman behind my back and accuse me of cheating! You are simply unreasonable. I will never live with you again. Divorce! Divorce!"
She screamed loudly, but the words that followed were a little weak.
Because, they are divorced.
Because we have broken up.
Because, it was true that her heart had nothing to cling to anymore.
In that case, what else can be said?
Are you, Zhang Wufeng, the only one who is amazing in this world? I, Yang Xiaolan, can still live a wonderful life without you!
Yang Xiaolan thought about it, and also realized that if Zhang Wufeng had not reminded her this time, she would definitely have contracted a lot of diseases, and her future would have been extremely bleak.
So, she still had to thank this man, but when she thought that the other party didn't care about her, Yang Xiaolan suddenly felt a little upset.
After thinking about it, Yang Xiaolan became a little angry. After pulling all her gifts into the taxi, she decided to first put her things at her parents' house, and then go find Zhang Wufeng and ask him to apologize to her, and then she would consider whether to forgive him. He must be just angry, and after a while, he will definitely kowtow to her again!
Thinking of this, Yang Xiaolan finally felt relieved.
At this moment, Zhang Wufeng also sighed with relief, and his tone was filled with endless relief.
"Wufeng, do you still like her?" Su Ru suddenly asked.
"I don't like her mother, and I don't like her either. Don't think too much." Zhang Wufeng said with a smile.
"You, just talk nonsense. You obviously know what I mean." Su Ru said coquettishly.
"I know, but it's meaningless to say that she loves someone. If you love someone, you love them, and if you don't love them, you don't love them. I can only say that if the hurt is too deep and the heart is dead, it is impossible to be involved again. Once the mirror is broken, it can't be repaired."
"In fact, girls need to be coaxed--"
"Don't talk about this, really. It doesn't matter if you coax those who are worth coaxing. If they are not worth coaxing, then you are just being a slut."
"..."
"Speaking of this, I remembered something and I still want to say something from my heart." Su Ru thought for a moment and said directly.
"Well? Go ahead." When Zhang Wufeng heard Su Ru's tone, he knew that she was about to say something unpleasant, but Zhang Wufeng understood that honest advice may be unpleasant to the ears but is beneficial to one's conduct!
"I know you will be unhappy or in a bad mood if I tell you this, but I have to tell you because you treat me as a friend, so I don't want you to get into a conflict and entanglement here!" Su Ru explained, then smoothed her bangs, pondered for a moment, and said softly, "I thought about it carefully, Yang Xiaolan is actually quite pitiful.
When she, I and several classmates were chatting in the group a year ago, I also talked to her about you. At that time, many female classmates envied her and thought that she had found a man who loved her and cared for her, and that her job was easy and her income was good. But she said in the group that she felt depressed and that she always had nothing to say to you.
She herself doesn't like those entertainment novels, and you don't like the idol dramas she likes. She says that there is always little communication between you.
The most important thing is that your lifestyle is problematic. You always like to write books at night and sleep during the day. When you go shopping with her, you always seem listless. Although she can feel that you care about her, she just feels that you are getting more and more annoyed, so she always likes to quarrel with you and find ways to make you angry...
I didn't understand it at the time. As a man, when it comes to creative work, it's better to think in the quiet of the night, right? What's wrong with being a little more silent, a little more solid but reliable? If you're not satisfied, you can just speak it out and communicate with each other, right?
Now thinking about it, I understand a little bit, because women always yearn for the romance under the moon and flowers. Maybe she can't adapt to the kind of plain and peaceful life that you like, so she thinks you are not good enough.
In fact, this is just a poor girl, she does not understand true love, but yearns for the so-called romance under the moon and flowers. She is not satisfied with a peaceful and happy life, but thinks it is boring and dull.
Many girls who like idol dramas will make such a choice. They have not really grown up yet.
However, how many mistakes did Yang Xiaolan make? If a man loves a woman, he should be tolerant, but tolerance does not mean spoiling. A woman who cannot bear spoiling should not be spoiled, because this will only make her worse! And a woman who can bear spoiling actually does not need to be spoiled at all, because she will take the initiative to spoil her man.
Yes, you thought that you loved her, and you could never bear to blame her, but this was indulgence! So, when all this gradually changed, she slowly changed!
She fell in love with Huang Yuansheng's sweet talk and his gangster-like arrogance, and left you. This is her immature decision, and it is also the result of your doting on her! If you scold her where you should scold her, and scold her where you should scold her, and appropriately take out some time to accompany her to relax and talk, or she will never leave you unless she is a fool!
But now that things have come to this, she has completely changed. She doesn’t know how to love. This choice can only bring her sorrow…”
Su Ru was in deep thought and spoke in a very calm tone. Zhang Wufeng understood the intention of her words, but he didn't want to think about them anymore.
Su Ru is a very taciturn girl, but she can say so much about this matter, which shows that she has actually thought about these words for a long time!
Zhang Wufeng nodded slightly and fell into deep thought. Just like the words in his dream, they also penetrated deeply into his heart.
Yes, he was wrong in the past. He shouldn't be a good man! He shouldn't spoil a girl like this! It's really not worth it! Being a good man can only make yourself suffer, so why bother? Are women born to be coaxed by men? After this incident, Zhang Wufeng will no longer coax women! A man should have the dignity of a man! I don't care if you cry, make a fuss, or even hang yourself!
"I understand what you mean, but I can only say that my vision is poor!" Zhang Wufeng laughed self-deprecatingly, and continued, "I thought that when others thought of asking me for help in times of trouble, it meant that they cared about me. I felt gratified when I helped them solve their problems. They also greeted me during the New Year and asked about my well-being. Although their concern was a bit false and polite, I just regarded it as a friend's concern and didn't think too much about it!
Although I am a very sensitive writer, I don't want to think so badly of others! I know that reality is a bit cruel, but I always feel that those people without loyalty and conscience will be far away from me, but I don't want this situation to happen to me.
This can only be said that those who are involved are confused, while those who are not involved can see things clearly.
As for Yang Xiaolan, a woman I thought was worth my all, she ended up like this! This can only mean that this woman is not worthy of love at all, and she doesn't love me at all! There is no need for any reason!
Yes, indulgence! You are right! But without love, how can there be indulgence? Indulgence itself is a kind of deep love and a kind of happiness!
Still not satisfied with this? That only means that this woman doesn't love her man at all, and doesn't understand love and happiness at all.
It is true that she likes idol dramas and dislikes entertainment novels, but what does it matter? I don't restrict her from watching idol dramas, nor do I despise her, but she always brings up my novels, saying that they are useless. Is that what she means?
She used to be a very gentle person, so I always thought about not hurting her feelings. But once I scolded her, she wanted to jump off the building! That was the first and only time I scolded her in these years! I thought, she is also a poor girl, she was quite pure and delicate when she was in school, what if I scolded her and she couldn't bear it and committed suicide... Thinking of this, and thinking about how she used to be a very good and sensible person, I suppressed my anger.
Now that I think about it, I should have broken up a long time ago! It was my own indecision that led to this situation, and I really deserved it!
(End of this chapter)
